Our List

For couples

A shared bucket list for couples

Our List is the easiest way to build a bucket list together. Add dreams, plan adventures, and check them off side by side in one private, real-time space made just for the two of you.

Create your shared list

Why couples love sharing a bucket list

A bucket list is more fun when you build it with the person you love. A shared bucket list gives you and your partner one place to dream out loud, hold each other to your plans, and remember everything you want to do together — from the next weekend trip to the someday adventures.

One list, always in sync

Instead of scattered notes and screenshots, you and your partner share a single bucket list that updates in real time. Add an idea on your phone and it appears instantly on theirs.

Private by design

A shared space is visible only to the two of you. Your dreams, plans, and inside jokes stay between you — never public, never shared with anyone else.

Made for two

See who added each item and who checked it off. React with emojis, leave comments, and celebrate every dream you complete together.

Perfect for long-distance

Plan your next reunion or someday-trip from different cities. Our List works anywhere, so distance never gets in the way of dreaming together.

Bucket list ideas for couples

Not sure where to start? Create a few themed lists and fill them in together over time. Popular shared bucket lists include:

  • Travel destinations to visit together
  • Restaurants and cuisines to try
  • Date night ideas
  • Adventures and bucket-list experiences
  • Movies and shows to watch
  • Home and cozy goals
  • Milestones and anniversaries to celebrate
  • Skills to learn as a couple

How to start a shared bucket list together

  1. 1

    Sign up for Our List and create your private shared space.

  2. 2

    Invite your partner with a single private link — they join in seconds.

  3. 3

    Create themed lists and start adding the dreams you want to share.

  4. 4

    Check items off together and watch your shared bucket list grow.

Frequently asked questions

Everything you need to know about building a shared bucket list together.

What is Our List?

Our List is a private, shared bucket list app for couples. You and your partner build bucket lists together — travel, food, adventures, date nights — and check items off side by side, with every change syncing in real time.

Is Our List free to use?

Yes. You can create a shared space, invite your partner, and build unlimited bucket lists together for free.

Is our bucket list private?

Completely. A shared space is visible only to you and the one partner you invite. No one else can see your lists or your dreams.

How does real-time syncing work?

When either partner adds an item, checks one off, reacts, or comments, the change appears instantly for both of you — no refresh needed. You always see the same up-to-date list.

Can we use Our List in a long-distance relationship?

Yes. Our List works on any device, anywhere, so long-distance couples can plan adventures and dream together from different cities or countries.

How do we get started together?

One partner signs up and creates a shared space, then sends the other a private invite link. Once your partner joins, you share one synced set of bucket lists.

Can I add notes, reactions, and comments to items?

Yes. Every item supports rich notes, emoji reactions, and threaded comments, so you can plan the details and react to each other's ideas in one place.

Can I install Our List on my phone?

Yes. Our List is a Progressive Web App, so you can install it to your home screen on iOS and Android and receive push notifications when your partner adds or completes something.

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